after surgery

Well ja ck had the surgery on Nov 17 and has been home on con leave since then. the first night was very rough, I didn't think we were going to be able to even drive home the next day. stayed in louisville that night and went to the base the next day to get the c on leave. he had bloody drainage in his jackson pratt drain about 200cc a day. he could barely sleep and we had him on per cocet for pain. it was a miserable night with many low points. I talked to John [husband] a lot just to get me through the night. he must had 20 staples over the back of his head. We go back weekly and every week things looked better until last week. they began filling the top expander but couldn't do the bottom because it was so reddened and inflamed. changed antibiotics and we will try again on tuesday ill keep this going in real daily time starting with next week. i am afraid he will have to have another surgery. I am praying he doesnt